6/16/09

Tied up or down

BD/SM is a unique segment of our sexual community. There is a mirror image in the heterosexual world, one that I have never experienced or been able to fathom. The few times I have been around 'straight' BD/SM people the discussion always seems to turn to technique rather quickly, while with 'gay' folk the discussion seems centered on the mutual experience of getting to that point where both are at the extreme edge of pain/pleasure. The guys that are into the humiliation of others don't enter these discussions, rather they brag to their friends about conquest and pain inflicted. It seems to be the same way with guys into piss. Wither they are into a mutual experience, satisfying a bottoms need or humiliation. Often Piss and BD/SM go hand in hand, but just as often neither the top nor bottom have any desire to move in that direction.
What I hope to display tonight is not really the connection. Rather, I'm concerned with a small niche in the community that is into the more esoteric art of binding another. Asians, particularly Japanese, have perfected this into an art. As a bottom I find the length of time and fussiness of the Japanese art tedious and non erotic. But each to their own. I have known guys that find the act of being wrapped like a Thanksgiving turkey inspiring. Symbolic binding, handcuffs, leashes, chains around the ankles are more than enough. If you want to experiment with know tying and ropes join the Boy Scouts or the rodeo. Come to think about it, being lassoed might be a thrill, I never tried it.

At this guys age I didn't need anymore than this either.
This vintage shot shows that less is enough.



Here we're getting into the more oriental style of binding. More controlling and more knots.



Stretching the body as well as the mind to find its limitations.




An example of the more artistic Asian style. The partner is controlling the body down to the ability of the 'bottom' to keep or have an erection.




Looks like he was caught by the Gorton's fisherman. When those ropes dry he will be tightly bound.







Again an Asian display of binding as art.







An over use of rope to make a point. Complete control? Helplessness? Hopelessness?





If you're going to tape the mouth shut, you are limiting yourself to the number of your pleasures available. What's the point?






Could be a rather interesting position. Tiring, but interesting. He is feeling a bit insecure, you can tell by the lack of an erection. Turn him around and you have full exposure of his back and butt to any games you want to play.




Classic. T-bar position, availability of the entire body for abuse.





An early art piece that shows the development of the Japanese art. Not just a late twentieth century phenomena.




Light bondage, allowing for the availability of the boy's butt. NIce for discipline or fucking.



Hog-tied.





What looks like a Japanese BD session with the addition of the hottest touch of piss. Don't knock it until you've tried it. Hot piss on the tender skin of your ass is stimulating beyond belief.





They both have much more patience than me.






If you ever find yourself in this position beware, the hands will go numb very quickly.





Two boys that enjoy their work.




BD that is edging into CBT. Another niche that I might display soon.







Trussed like a turkey. Finger licking good.




A depiction of the art gone to the extreme.




Frank. Bound and ready for more. It would be nice to see if he had an erection. Does BD or SM do it for you Frank? We've already learned that piss can (check out http://www.hot_boyspissing.com/)


An artistic depiction of the art.


Not very artistic, but he is stable but mostly unavailable.

On a slight decline he probably feels insecure. A feeling the 'top' certainly can put to use. I hope you learned something about the BD/SM use of ropes. Not how to tie ropes, that you can only learn by doing but about how securely or insecurely you can bind you partner.